There really is.
But he’s not your average camel. This camel’s name is Carl, and he came from the Phoenix Zoo.
The people who live next door have a petting zoo.
On weekends, they take Carl, the llamas, the zebras, and the mini ponies to birthday parties.
The little kids love to ride them and pet them and brush them.
Sometimes Carl comes over the fence into our yard.
He comes over because he’s curious.
Carl eats our hay, he lays in the shade, and then he mozies back over to his pasture.
When this happens, we don’t get mad at Carl. We don’t yell at him and tell him to go home.
In fact we don’t mind at all.
Because he’s a camel,
AND THAT’S WHAT CAMELS DO.
All of us know a Carl.
The people in our lives who assume they can show up and say or do whatever they want, without worrying how other people feel.
And when this happens we have two choices.
We can get upset,
OR
we can realize that most people are just like Carl and the other animals at the zoo.
They don’t know how to manage their brains.
They don’t understand how handle their emotions.
They haven’t learned how to be introspective or tell the truth about themselves.
And that’s OK.
Because they don’t need to.
They really don’t need to change at all.
If you want true peace with the “Carls” in your life, the only person who needs to change is you.
If you’re ready for change, I can teach you how.
I’ll show you the three main things you can learn to solve all the difficult people problems in your life. Forever.
Let’s do this!
photo by Kyaw Tun